I am sleepy sleepy sleepy ! I have to keep getting up so I don't fall and crack my head on the desk! I absolutely hate being like this.
Right after Cindy W got here today her husband called her and told her that her brother had committed suicide. We have no idea who may have called him but apparently the rest of her family had not been notified. She said he left a note but of course she didn't know yet what was in it. She just went all to pieces. You know Cindy she is usually kind of reserved, but she totally lost it when he called. He had to come and picked her up. She said he was about 5 years younger than she is and they have a sister younger than them. She works at St. Francis. I assume they were going to tell her. It made me feel so bad for her. She said she didn't have any idea what was so wrong that he felt the need for that. You just never know all that is on a person's mind. She said if she didn't call us today she would try and call to tomorrow. I will have to at least go to the visitation, if they have one. Maybe Kathy and I could go together. She told me she didn't have any idea when she would be back to work and that most likely it would fall on her to take care of everything (he wasn't married). I told her not to even think about work. Both of Cindy's daughters are getting married at the 1st of the year and she has been busy and happy helping them get stuff done. They both came in last month and Cindy took vacation so they could get a bunch of things done.
We went to the funeral home Friday night for Bob's Mom. Bob was pretty upset. They were leaving to go back home this morning. She said she would try to get over one day to see us but she didn't make it. I left her cell number here at work and could not even call them. I am worried about Bob now. I emailed Brenda Lee when I got here this morning but she had not talked to them since before the funeral Saturday. She tried to call her once but didn't get an answer so now she is worried. She worries about him so much anyway that my telling her he was very upset was not a smart thing to do. She will not stop trying to call now until she gets an answer but on the other hand if something was terribly wrong surely we would have heard. I should have gone to the funeral. Bob has had heart surgery 3 times and lots of other problems and Brenda Lee worries herself to death over him.
Gail had a cookout Sunday. It was so good. She barbequed ribs and chicken. I made cole slaw, macaroni salad and a desert. She made deviled eggs and put some smashed up avocado in them. They were delicious. I think those were the best ribs I had ever had. Lawrence told her how to make them. Treva made a hot cole slaw but I didn't like it too much. He said they were good too. Yesterday we mostly just lay around I kept expecting Dee to come by. We got up early and I had asked for pancakes and bacon for breakfast. I used to seldom eat pancakes but she makes the best ones. She went with Mikael to volley ball practice and I watched the twins. It looked like rain but it never did but it has been raining most of today. Yesterday evening we took the twins for a walk. Actually they rode their trikes and we walked. It was nice out not too hot. We walked around the neighborhood looking at everyone's yard and then went to Fas Chek. Gail got her ribs at Aldi's. She said they were so much cheaper there but she didn't know before how good they were.